10 Things Only People Who Are Winning At Life Understand



Do you ever look at those people who are winning at life and wonder how the heck they got so successful?

They might be one of your high school friends who’s now killing it at a top-tier law firm or a colleague who just keeps getting promoted. But that person could also be you.

There are many things successful people always do that guarantees them wins in almost every aspect of their lives. They are all quite easy to pick up but it’s the trick of adding them to your daily life that makes a huge difference. It’s definitely doable so look no further for your roadmap to success!

#1 Tackle one thing at a time

Sure it’s great to be that office multi-tasker, helping everyone out. But studies have shown that when our attention is divided between tasks our attention to detail falls short.

Of course, your tasks will sometimes get interrupted. Some of us are super busy, but if you try doing one thing for at least 20 minutes you’ll see how much your work improves when your focus is narrowed.

#2 Get home for dinner (or at least at a reasonable hour)

There’s always going to be late nights at the office on occasion but the last thing you want to do is make them the norm. Know when to put your pen down so to speak and leave. Being at home with your family or flatmates with time to relax can lower your stress levels after a crazy day.

#3 Don’t scrimp on sleep

Science has shown us that when we’re super overtired we have the same brain function as someone who has been drinking! You don’t want to be that person in the office. Getting a good night’s sleep helps you deal with stress and figure out the infinite issues that daily life brings.

Sleeping in on the weekend, unfortunately, doesn’t count for 5 hour nights during the week. Make sure to get at least 7 if not 8 every night.

#4 Don’t skip meals

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. And so is lunch. And dinner! You do need to get all three. If we don’t have enough food, our bodies conserve energy for the most basic of functions. Which will make you feel drained mentally and physically. Load up on healthy fruit and vegetables, complex carbohydrates and try to get some protein in at every meal.

#5 Water, water, water!

Water is so, so important for you every day. Even if you get a tiny bit dehydrated you’ll start to feel a headache coming on, your brain function will dip; you might even feel hungry when you’re not. Hello, regrettable afternoon biscuit run! Keep a big bottle on your desk and aim to refill it at least once if not twice a day.

#6 Stay moving

Successful people understand that their mental strength is tied to their physical strength. They use that to their advantage. They work out to solve problems and relieve stress. It’s the best way to free up some mental space!

#7 Write everything down

Carry a notebook around with you and write down anything work related that you don’t understand or any terms you’re not familiar with. Research them later, either on your own or by asking your boss. Knowledge is power and the more knowledge you have the easier your job will become. People will turn to you for advice or help – even before you’re promoted above them!

#8 Refrain from the inbox

Whilst it might seem wise to keep an eye on your emails all day, make sure it doesn’t rule your life. Some employees will be tied down to it, but if it’s not your full job you shouldn’t be a slave to it. Try to make it a habit that you only check it a few times unless you’re waiting on something urgent. The inbox can draw us away from our tasks so allow some time for checking then move on.

#9 Dress for the part

People always look successful before they are successful. That old adage, “dress for the job you want, not the one you have” is so true. Do whatever you have to do to make sure you look professional at all times. Wear makeup and try to style your hair every day if your career demands it. Otherwise, ensure you’re clean and well-groomed. These things go a long way when your superiors are discussing whether you’re suited to that higher role.

#10 Leave time to unwind!

This one is definitely as important as the rest – and fun! Working hard to get a promotion or get your business off the ground is all important, but you should make sure you still leave time for yourself.

Catch up with friends, see that movie, go shopping or out to a nice dinner. These things improve your outlook on life and your emotional stability and in turn, will help to make you that successful person you know you can be!

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Lucy O'Connor

Sydneysider. Working woman. Fashion blogger. High heel lover. Foodie. Traveler. Lipstick devotee. Writer of Blush & Bordeaux - fashion, beauty, living, travel & wellness. Lover of all things Career Girl Daily!

  • Camille Beygui

    Awesome post

  • Bøger På Stribe

    Great advice. It is so simple and easy way to more quality in general.

    /Josephine, http://www.instagram.com/books_boegerpaastribe

  • Dorothy

    All of these are so true, but #7 is my absolute favourite.


  • Yvonne Ashon

    Excellent post and advice. Thanks

  • hanan abdi

    Amazing post, thank you so much for the advice. My favourite has to be number #6. xx


  • dreamofadventures

    Great list! If I don’t write things down I always forget and then am running around trying to remember what I had to do haha. Also yes, sleep is amazing for you


  • YouTube “Travel with Alexis”

    Such great advice! But I have to get enough sleep first and drink a ton of water to get me going then I can apply the rest of the list more successfully haha.

  • Marie @ Business of Blooming

    Lots of great advice here. I like how almost all of it has to do with taking care of yourself and drawing boundaries, so that you CAN rock your job. Thanks!


  • Joy

    I do most of these things all the time. It all started when my life became busier

  • KacheeTee

    This is actually pretty good advice. Seems like stuff we should all know, but we forget.


  • Precious

    Now I REALLY need to learn how to sleep more. Thanks for the tips!


  • Liz @ Travelling Table Tales

    These are fantastic tips. Leaving time to unwind is something that I find challenging – but I am trying to work on. Thanks for sharing.

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