One of the greatest mindsets off all is to truly not care what others think about you. But that is hard to achieve, especially when your loved ones and people who are important to you do not believe in you. With these 5 killer tips you will never stop believing in yourself.
#1 – Do not compare yourself to others
Comparison is the thief of joy. Every time you compare yourself to another person, you will find something better, greater or something you are jealous of in the other person. But what you are most likely to forget is that this exact person you are comparing yourself to is probably jealous of one of your unique features. Every human being is unique and great in itself and should not be compared to one another.
#2 – Let success make the noise
Let success make the noise and work quietly. If you always tell people what exactly you want to achieve, they often expect that from you in a short time, without knowing how much time and effort it takes to achieve a small milestone to the big ultimate goal.
#3 – Use a journal
Write down what you achieved so far every single day, even if it’s just as small thing like finally finishing a really important email or somebody bought your product. It’s all about the progress and when you document the progress you can always look back and see what you have already achieved and how far you already came and that you worked way to hard to give up.
#4 – Think about the outcome
Think about your goals, look at your vision board and imagine how proud and shocked everybody will be, when you finally tell them how far you’ve come. Imagine being able to say “I made it. I made it all by myself” When somebody doesn’t believe in you that’s just a reason to work even harder to prove them wrong. Don’t tell people your dreams. Show them!
#5 – Living your Dream
Ask yourself: When you are not living your dream, what is your life about then? Are the people not believing in you living their dream? Or did they just become what their family told them to be? Before you make anybody else happy you have to be happy yourself. Remember that when others try to put you down.