How One Book Changed The Way I Work Forever

photo: Mija


You can’t convince me that books aren’t amazing. As a literature graduate, I’m probably the most bookish person you could meet. I believe you can read a book for the first or the fiftieth time and always learn something new, whether it’s about the author or about yourself. With that in mind, I recently picked up Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, if it promises to change the way I think then I usually believe it. Ultimately, this book did just that. Here’s how it changed the way I work.

Fear is necessary
Last year my New Year’s Resolution was to be more fearless. To push boundaries and put myself out there. That New Year’s Resolution led me to where I am now, and for that I’m thankful. But I don’t think it was wise to try to be completely fearless, as I eventually had a burnout from pushing myself too hard. In Big Magic Elizabeth says that aiming to be completely fearless is not the way forward. ‘Bravery means doing something scary. Fearlessness means not even understanding what the word scary means.’ After reading this I realized it’s okay for me to still feel a bit of fear towards certain things because fear is a driving force that keeps us on our toes and helps us grow.

Forget about failures and successes
I always talk about failures being the first step to success, but I’ve never really thought about how you know you’re doing well. Do you count up your successes and failures and congratulate yourself on everything you’ve overcome and accomplished? Elizabeth Gilbert says you should measure your worth by ‘your dedication to your path, not by your successes or failures.’ If you’ve stuck with one thing for a long time, you should congratulate yourself! Dedication is definitely a win!

Everybody has a talent
I’m a writer, that’s my talent. But I’m not always confident in that ability, I often think it’s a fluke that I’ve got to where I am. That I do what I love for a living, that I’m congratulated on my fiction writing – it just came from my brain, how can it be good? But then, in this book the line: ‘The Universe buries strange jewels deep within us all, and then stands back to see if we can find them,’ caught me off-guard. It’s true. We all have a talent we are ‘hiding’. If you’re reading this now I’m sure you’ve got something in mind that you know you love, but you’re unsure if you’re really good enough at it. Good enough for what I ask? For who? If you enjoy it – go for it.

In conclusion, this book has taught me to be open, to live creatively and to embrace the talents I know I have. I’ll be reading it again a few times to get more inspiration!

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  • dreamofadventures

    I’ve heard so many good things about this book, I’m adding it to my list! =o)

    • Me too, I read a review and I’m so glad I bought it x

  • Hannah Lucy

    Ohh I’ll have to add this to my basket!

    Hannah | Oh January

    • Yay! It’s such a good read! X

  • Emma

    Heard so many great things about this! Definitely want to give it a read! x

    • You should definitely have it on your reading list this year! X

  • Camille Beygui

    Lovely post

  • Simi Atanda Lindgren

    I have to give this a read immediately!

    • Yes! It’s so cool! X

  • Tash

    I’ve read this book already and have suggested this book to all of my guy and girlfriends…it a must read…
    it changed my way of thinking…

    • Yes! Me too Tash! It’s an amazing book! X

  • Kate (Petite Adventures)

    I can’t wait to read this book! I’ve heard countless amazing things about it!

    Kate |

    • It is so cool! I’m rereading it and highlighting ferociously! X

  • Inma

    We all need a bit of Liz Gilbert in our lives! She is so wonderful! I have really enjoyed her podcast The Magic Lessons, which is directly linked to this book.

    Inma x

    • Oh sounds amazing! Definitely going to check that out. Thanks Inma :) x

      • Inma

        Hope you enjoy it. I can never get enough of Elizabeth Gilbert ha ha x

    • Oh my! I never knew she did a podcast too, checking it out on my long train journey this afternoon! Thanks xx

      • Inma

        Enjoy! I’t recommend starting with episode 1 as it is all kind of related and works better in order x

  • Shelby @ The Fernweh Wolf

    That sounds amazing! I too have taken up the “live more fearlessly” and while it’s a lot of work, you know with judgement and people not understand what we’re doing, it’s totally worth it to stick to our guns! I love the mention of the talent we are hiding :]
    Thanks for the book mention will definitely read it !
    The Fernweh Wolf / Travel & Lifestyle Blog

  • Dia Bianca Lao

    This is such an inspirational post. I love the line: “fear is a driving force that keeps us on our toes and helps us grow” and I completely agree with that. This hit close to home for me since at one point, I was too self-conscious and afraid to pursue blogging since it’s an unknown realm to me and I didn’t think I would be good enough. I’m glad I faced my fear and decided to pursue my passion for writing through blogging!

  • Kaylee Karcher

    Wowowowow i LOVE that quote “the universe buries strange jewels deep within us all…”. It’s so true. Great post as always!!!

  • Carrie Harding

    I will definitely be checking this book out – thanks so much for the recommendation. I especially love the final point – that everyone has a talent. As a new blogger, I am definitely feeling self-conscious about it. I have been questioning if anyone would read it – but you are right – who am I really writing it for? I can only hope that I will be able to connect with like-minded people, but if it isn’t what everyone is looking to read, that’s ok too.