How To Read The Minds Of Everyone You Work With

Street style, Darja Barannik arriving at Stand Spring Summer 2017 show held at The Black Box, Regeringsgatan 65,, in Stockholm, Sweden, on August 29th, 2016. Photo by Marie-Paola Bertrand-Hillion/ABACAPRESS.COM

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Building a relationship with your coworkers can be pivotal to your success, especially if you’re looking for promotion within your company. If reading body language isn’t your forte, read on for my tips on how to read your coworkers better…

Watch them when they’re not working….
At lunch, or when they’re grabbing a coffee, are they chatty and polite? Are they comfortable voicing their opinions? If you study what they’re like when their guard is down, this will clue you into how they like to treat others and be treated.

Be on the lookout for “closed” body language…
Crossed arms and a lack of eye contact could signal that your coworker might be uncomfortable or uninterested. Assess the situation with caution and don’t pry.

Listen to them…
Don’t interrupt them in the middle of a story, unless it’s to ask a question. Try using questions that need an explanation instead of a ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ answer. They might really need a chat and being a good listener is a skill we should all have.

Pay attention to how they communicate…
Are they an email-only person? Do they pull you aside for delicate conversations? In order to communicate well with them, be sure to measure your expectations based on their behaviors!

Good luck!


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  • Jen

    This is so awesome. I definitely feel like I struggle a bit with getting to know my coworkers. It’s so important to establish a meaningful relationship so that the work day can be a little bit easier!

  • Elishia

    I’ve always thought I’ve been a really good judge of people and I’m able to communicate with them the way they like, but this has added some really handy tips :) thanks!

  • Maddie

    Disappointing. I thought this was going to be a post about how to become a jedi
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